What Makes A Man Sexy
By Rachelle Arlin Credo, Sat Dec 10th
What makes a man appealling? Is it his dashing good looks? Is ithis rock-hard pecs and abs of steel? Or is it his smile and hispersonality that takes the top plum? In a society where everyoneseems aesthetically astute, it's difficult to validate thisquestion for sure. Sexiness is a very subjective matter and isvery relative at that. It holds inconsonant views from eachindividual just as everyone squabbles over tastes in clothes andfood. Hence, a universal answer to this blown-up question is anillusion. Nonetheless, being in a magnificent relationship withsomeone so downright sexy replete with all the sensual andsensible traits any woman would kill for, I think I can provideauthentic down-to-earth revelations regarding this subject. So what makes a man sexy? Take your whiffs off the following: 1. Masculinity
There is more to a man than his firm butt and washboard abs.True, what a woman first notices is his anatomical assets butwhat lingers in her mind is not all that. It's his inherentmasculinity. It's in the way he languidly struts across the roomwith a show of adequacy and grace and the way he flashes theglint in his eyes that ultimately creates the spark. It's alsoin the manner that he moves and talks that keeps women's eyesriveted at him. Being masculine does not merely suggestflaunting a large build or a protective quality but having thisnatural instinctive masculine self to trigger women'sinstinctive feelings of attraction. 2. Smile A natural sweet smile is one of the greatest attraction of aman. It exudes an aura of congeniality and establishes charismapresence. It also breaks a woman's resistance and communicateshidden messages without any verbal language. This is why a manwho is generous with his smile is guaranteed to maintain awomen-magnet profile! 3. Eye contact A man who knows how to have eye contact is a man who knows howto communicate. Women just like men are absolute attentionseekers. They want men to listen and to take heed of the thingsthey say. Thereupon, they demand affirmation. Eye contact is away of ratifying. It makes a woman feel sufficiently attended toand cared for. Eye contact makes women feel so extremely specialthat they tend to sometimes melt right on the spot. 4. Confidence Confidence makes a man. There's just something about the appealof wealth and power that women can't resist. Antithetical to howmost people view it, giving off that commanding vibe isn'talways dependent on one's bank account. Men can actually take onthat aura of authority just by moving through life with an airof self-assurance and a boost of self-esteem. 5. Aromatic sense If a man is a making of a heartthrob onscreen and is a hunk on aramp but stinks, he definitely goes down the cutthroat world. Nowoman likes a man who smells a bit too ripe like he just spent24 hours locked in the bathroom. If a man looks good and smellseven better, women are bound to swarm around him. 6. Sense of Style Some men just don't seem the type to
go with the fashion trend.But it does not mean that they are passe. Some just have theirown personal preferences and resist the lure of punked-upgarments. Actually, it's not the clothes that make a man sexy.It's how he carries his apparel with confidence and ease thatdoes. Clothes don't entice women, it's the man that makes thoseclothes look good in him that wiles them. 7. Communication skills Intellect is a factor in today's attraction equation. We are insuch a competitive world that anyone without it is immediatelyslighted. But intellect without communication skills is not anattractive product. Conversational skills are necessary for anyman to win the tilt. He must know when and how to start up aconversation and carry it on 'til it tapers off. He should notpatronize women and is not so full of himself. It is believedthat if a man is able to stimulate a woman's brain juices in aconversation, it is likely that he can stimulate her otherjuices as well. 8. Sensitivity Sensitivity is sexy but too much sensitivity is feminity. Sowhere do we draw the line? When we talk about sensitivity on theright scale, it means having a sense of empathy, confidentialityand trust rolled into one. When a woman confides something, aman's initial reaction is to help her find a solution or fix ithimself. This is not sensitivity. When a woman expresses herfeelings, she just needs an ear to insorb the steam out of herbeing. A sexy man sees this through and gets women everytime. 9.Sense of Humor Laughter releases chemicals that create a sense of well-being,which is a wonderful turn-on. A man equipped with a good senseof humor automatically wins his points on the sexy scale withwomen. With the mighty use of his expression and wits combined,he becomes an addiction that women just can't get enough of.Women think that if he can evoke them with laughter in public,chances are he can also make them giggle in bed. 10. Oddity Extrinsic and intrinsic personal abilities and traits that areconsidered unique and superior by a woman's biology and also bythe society to which she identifies with are, to varyingextents, very charming to the female species. If a man has thegift of music or have potential fancy footwork or simply has artat his fingertips, he can charm his way anywhere. A mysteriousfacade that keeps her intrigued and guessing is also deemedbewitching. But a man's resistance to a woman's seduction isconsidered the prime. It's effects are naturally ingrained intothe "sex" part of a woman's brain that it drives her motorspurring all the time. What makes a man sexy is but everything about him and evenmore. Whether it be on the surface or skin deep, it's just amatter of projection. Every man is sexy in their own ways. Theyjust have to feel that in themselves so the seething sexinesscomes out of them naturally. About the author:Rachelle Arlin Credo is an entrepreneur and relationship coach.She also works as an image consultant and part-time writer.Formerly a contributing scribe to The Freeman and SunstarPhilippines, her literary works have been published in variousmagazines and online publications. |
